Recently I found out that my best friend is pregnant with her first child. Since I’ve been pressing her to have a baby so I can claim my niece/nephew, I was over the moon when she told me about the baby. That lasted for about a week, then reality set in. I was already slightly disgruntled (seriously, only slightly) because she got married and life now revolved around her husband and no longer included me as much, and so I couldn’t plan little random trips like back in the day b/c she had to get clearance from the spouse (which she rarely got, so we kinda just gave up). Now there’s my small niece/nephew on the way, and suddenly I feel bad for her. She’s never complained. ON the contrary, she’s happier than I’ve ever seen her. She’s in a stable loving relationship, has a good job, husband bringing in the dough, and now has her own little bundle of joy on the way. I can’t be mad that she’s that happy. But I think about the fact that she hasn’t travelled the world. Hasn’t seen a thing. Hasn’t experienced ANYTHING.

I understand that there are women out there who strive for stability and family. But is that all there is to work towards? Is this her life from here on out? Doesn’t she desire to travel outside of this country? To see the 7 wonders? I remember last year (or the year before) I wanted to go see the Grand Canyon soooo so badly so I emailed a few of my friends and cousins to see who was interested in making this exciting trip with me. I mean really now! The Grand Canyon!!! A naturally formed canyon. Made by God and nature. Such magnificence. I had a few takers. Most people couldn’t even consider it because they were broke. My bff’s response: “You want me to fly to the other side of the country to see some rocks? Please. No thanks!” I remember frowning and becoming completely silent when she said that. Then excused myself off the line to call my boyfriend and express my disbelief at the response.

There’s so much out there to see. So much to do! I haven’t even started, as far as I’m concerned. But I guess different strokes for different folks. Grand Canyon, here I come!!